You Don't Have To Do This Alone

I make special education understandable and actionable—so parents can lead their child’s journey with strength and clarity.

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A Mission That Is Personal: How I Can Help

 

Individually Designed Coaching

After 27 years supporting families and students with diverse needs, I know how to design coaching that’s not just personalized—but truly effective.

IEP Representation

I advocate with strength and clarity during IEP meetings, making sure your child is truly seen, and your concerns are backed by expert, solution-focused guidance.

 

IEP Clarity Review

With the IEP Clarity Review, I break down your child’s IEP in plain language, identify gaps or red flags, and give you expert recommendations—then we meet one-on-one to review it all together.

 

Homeschool Support Design

Through tailored consultation, I help parents create meaningful homeschool structures that include tutor collaboration, visual supports like social stories, and flexible routines that work for real life.

 

On-Demand Learning & Ongoing Support

Coming soon: Empowering, step-by-step courses and a supportive membership community to help you confidently navigate your child’s education, advocate effectively, and feel less alone.

NICE TO MEET YOU

I'm Darby Ahlfinger

After nearly three decades supporting children with disabilities—13 of those as a district leader—I was ready to make a difference one family at a time. I realized that parents needed something the system couldn’t give them: personalized support, clarity, and a true advocate in their corner.

Now I use everything I’ve learned to help families like yours feel confident navigating education that is special and unique for the special and unique way their child learns. Whether it’s decoding the IEP, finding the just right learning fit, preparing for a high-stakes meeting, or simply figuring out where to start—I’m here to make sure you don’t have to figure it out alone.

 

"This 5-day challenge has changed my life. I’m only 2 months away from debt-free!"

- Martin Marino

“Before working with Darby, I felt overwhelmed and completely lost in the IEP process. I knew my daughter needed more support, but I didn’t know how to ask for it—or even what to ask for. Darby not only helped me understand the IEP in plain language, she gave me the confidence to speak up at the meeting. For the first time, I felt like an equal partner at the table. My only regret is not finding her sooner.”
— Michelle T., Mom of a 7th grader with learning disabilities

"From buried in debt earning passive income, this 5-day challenge sparked it all!"

- Susan Smith
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I offer free discovery calls so you can share a little about what’s going on—and I can share how I might help. No pressure, no prep needed. Just a real conversation with someone who gets it.

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